Thursday, July 12, 2007

The best family

When you think about raising a family you should start searching for the best spouse to get the best family. You should try your best to make a good family. One of the ways to make the best family is to have your parents, brother and sister as one large family that lives in one place, to try to get a social life family and finally, don’t forget to have ademocratic family.

First of all, when you have to live with a large family, you will feel less pressure or stress in raising your children, because your parents and brothers are going to help you if you had troubles. They have experience with children, and they know how to handle them. Also, they make a good time in the house by eating at one table and talking in the living room. When you think about it your brother is going to help you with the bills and cover some financial expenses.

Second, a big family or the best family should also have a good social life. They should help each other in the problems of life. For example, they should sit at the dinner table and talk about the things that happened in the day and how to solve the problems if they had them. You can also take care of your parents and your children in one place; you don’t need to go to your parents’ house to see them. Your children will respect your parents and they are going to respect you more and they will do the same as you did with your parents. They will raise a family the same as you raise your family.

Third, if you want to find a way to raise your family, you should use the democratic style. A democratic family is more important, because they will have some freedom in their life, and you’ll still have some control of them. There are many signs of diseases that will appear if you follow the serious or the weak family like stress, depression and peer pressure. When you have an open mind and you talk with your children about any problem they have, you may solve it in the beginning before it becomes complicated.

Scientists and researchers say that if you stay with a small family it may work; however, if you have all your family together you will have the best family. You will solve the social problems, and you will get a lot of experience from your parents. Also, the most important thing that you will get is the social life that lot of people want and they cannot get. Also, the democratic families don’t suffer from problems as other strict families and weak families do.
In conclusion, family is the most important thing in a person’s life. When you ask yourself why you worked, it’s only to have a good life with your family. So, don’t lose the time and lose a good family by having a small family. You should choose the best one.

1 comment:

xXxXXxXxXxx said...

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it's a beautifoul blog!!! compliments
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the table is on the cat
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